A 30-Day Course to Embrace Your Imperfections

A 30-Day Course to Embrace Your Imperfections

The Ultimate Anti-Cleanse

Self-care: It’s the ultimate gift, as you’ve already heard, but there’s no way you can add yet another cost or commitment to your overly full to-do list.

So…what if you didn’t have to?

Transformation and feeling good in your own skin don’t need to come with extra complications. That’s why I am inviting you to embrace Your Messy Brilliance®: A 30-Day Course to Embrace Your Imperfections.

I promise:
+ You don’t have to clean anything up (and for some of you, that might be a first).
+ You don’t have to clean out your closet.
+ You don’t have to pick up the self-help books that are gathering dust on your bookshelf.
+ And definitely no crazy crash diets.

Seriously…this course is a major life makeover without all the fuss and “work” that might usually take.

In fact, I like to call it an “anti-cleanse.”

Think about it: When you do a cleanse, you are actively trying to “detox” from something you don’t like. In other words, you’re “getting rid” of that thing, whether it’s a bad habit or a few extra pounds.

So how about a totally different approach—one that’s easy once you make the necessary mental shift? Dive into your mess to discover your joy, passion, and purpose.

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What You’ll Get

So, how exactly does Your Messy Brilliance® work?

Over the course of a month, you’ll go through a series of fun, easy daily exercises that will help you to:

+ Define what joy means to you on your own terms
+ Uncover the inspiration, self-acceptance, and courage you need to take charge of your destiny
+ Cut out the things that deplete your time, energy, and resources—and connect to what really matters
+ Know what makes you come alive and achieve a greater sense of passion and purpose
+ Find your true brilliance in the middle of your life—the messy, the glorious, all of it!
+ Leave with an action plan for making life happen—on a day-to-day basis and in looking at the bigger picture of your life

Why 30 days? Well, it’s short enough for you to complete with ease (instead of adding another to-do to your long list) but also a big enough span of time so that you can feel and experience lasting change.

Each week comes with a special introductory video and a unique theme that will run through that set of exercises:

  • Week 1 | Cultivate Your Joy


    Time and again, the women in my community come to me with questions that point to their difficulty with simply accepting themselves. It all comes back to the amount of joy and pleasure you are willing to experience, and this week will give you what you need to expand your capacity for joy exponentially.

  • Week 2 | Dive into the Mess


    If you aren’t willing to take an honest inventory of your life and feel everything in your experience—pain, shame, fear, sadness—you can’t summon the courage you need to get through it all and see yourself on the other side. This week will show you that in the darkness, you can find your light, your power, and ultimately, your messy brilliance.

  • Week 3 | Show Up As You


    The choices you make with respect to your lifestyle, your relationship, and the ways you connect with the world around you all impact your ability to fully be who you are. This week is all about making the choices that support you most in living a life in which you are fully authentic and self-expressed.

  • Week 4 | Dream Big

    Drum roll, please! This week is where you create a plan for yourself that helps you put your values into action in the world, and make choices that match your highest vision of who you are and what you want. Trust that this process is way easier than you might think.

Final Days | Your Roadmap

Finally, the last two days of the course are about creating the customized action plan that will bring all of your work and play from the last 30 days into fruition.

After you enroll in the course, you’ll have access to work through the lessons at your own pace from your laptop or mobile device.
Best of all, it’s yours for life—and I promise you that each time you come back to it, you’ll discover something new.

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Here's What Others Are Saying

“This class made me realize that ‘self-improvement’ can actually be fun! I appreciated the rhythm of the four weeks, and the fact that each day built on the lessons from the day(s) before. By the end of the month, I felt not like a brand-new person, but rather, like the ME I know I am deep down.”

Stacia Pache, Founder of itBandz

“This course was a source of solace for me in a time of transition. I appreciated the moments of gentle self-inquiry and opportunities to stretch just a little outside of my comfort zone. I walked away from it feeling closer to myself and more proud of the woman I am.”

Holly Seubert, Founder of VentureMom

“A no-nonsense invitation to recognize and embrace all that you are. Kelly doesn’t ask you to pretend that you are perfect. She asks you to honor the woman that you have become. Authenticity over pretense, messiness over the illusion of perfection. Highly recommended!”

Jeff Brown, author of An Uncommon Bond, Founder of Soulshaping Institute

“The tools from Kelly’s book, “Your Messy Brilliance,” are life-changing—and the 30-day course provides the structure to incorporate them into your life. It’s great to read a beautiful book that resonates, but often we put those books aside and go about our daily lives without integrating what we learned. Commiting to the 30-day course is a gift that creates lasting change in your life.”

Tammy Steele, Founder of Fully Present Living

“This course is practical, fun, and a breath of fresh air. Kelly McNelis bypasses complicated techniques and offers simple but powerful exercises that will help you deepen into a relationship with yourself that is pressure-free and will alleviate stresses in your life around “getting it perfect.” It’s the kind of course that lets you relax, even as it improves your life for the better.”

Judy Goss, TV/radio show host, founder of What Women Want Networking

30 Days to Embrace Your Messy Brilliance is one of those courses I know I’ll be returning to over and over. We all need a kickstart to connecting with the deepest parts of ourselves, especially when so many of us are torn between work, family, and life’s demands. Self-care doesn’t have to be hard, and Kelly’s class is proof positive that the baby steps all add up. I recommend this course to anyone who’s seeking a way to take care of herself without breaking the bank or putting in extra time that she just doesn’t have.”

Michelle Pfeiffer, Founder, Anna’s Angels

Why I Created 30 Days

Hi, I’m Kelly! I am the author of Your Messy Brilliance: 7 Tools for the Perfectly Imperfect Woman, and my community helps women across the globe make life happen on their own terms. It’s also the source material for Your Messy Brilliance®: A 30-Day Course to Embrace Your Imperfections—and although reading the book isn’t a prerequisite for taking the course, I definitely recommend it!

I’ve always felt that women celebrating their messiness and their innately beautiful selves creates a chain reaction of joy, passion, and purpose in our world. At the heart of Embrace Your Messy Brilliance in 30 Days is my own realization that personal development doesn’t have to be about changing yourself to fit into someone else’s idea of a “good” or “enlightened” person.

Instead, it can be about fun, joy, creativity, self-discovery, and throwing the rules out the window. I can definitely say—as a mom, a wife, a creator, and a businesswoman—the ultimate self-care is getting rid of the “I shoulds” and “if onlys” and simply be with what is…with yourself and your supremely messy life, exactly as they are in the moment.

Still, plenty of us are in need of an upgrade, and that’s okay. Whether you’ve been dreading each day up until this point, or have just been skating by, fine with the life you’ve been living but definitely not energized by it, I promise that you will be amazed at the possibilities you will create for yourself by the time this course is over.

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100% Satisfaction Guarantee

As someone who is committed to the growth and power of the women in my global community, I know how important it is to invest in programs that don’t give you the same old, same old—but that actually take you into new horizons of yourself and are worth their weight in gold.

That’s why Your Messy Brilliance® comes with a 100% satisfaction guarantee. If you do the work (and play) and honestly feel you didn’t get any value from the experience, simply write me within 30 days of your purchase for a full refund. I require your full, completed coursework and a detailed explanation of what didn’t work for you so I can continue to improve things on my end. I ask for your completed coursework because I know without a doubt that if you take action on the exercises, you’ll get tremendous value and feel the difference in your life.


In the next 30 days, you will find inspiration, self-acceptance, and the courage to
live full out from the core of the brilliantly messy woman you are.


Every day over the next month, you’ll get an email reminding you to log in to your course portal, where you’ll be given the exercise for the day. Each day includes a question to consider, a principle to learn and integrate, an action to take in your life, and a space to journal about what you got out of it. This journaling space is totally private, so you’re the only one who’ll see it. Just remember to hit “save” if you want to keep what you’re journaling before you move on to the next day.

Each day is going to be totally different. Some days will ask that you spend a few minutes journaling; other days will ask you to try on a totally new mindset and carry it into your entire life. Of course, give yourself a break; if you don’t feel like journaling or if you miss an activity, that’s okay. You can always come back to it. Remember to push your edges whenever you’re motivated.

Nope, just an open mind and the willingness to let yourself move outside your comfort zone! I also recommend my book, Your Messy Brilliance: 7 Tools for the Perfectly Imperfect Woman, which will complement your understanding of the tools in this course.

Not at all! While the vast majority of my community is made up of women, I am entirely welcoming to all people with powerful stories to share.

I call this course an “anti-cleanse” for a huge reason: It’s not about changing yourself or getting rid of the stuff you don’t like. It’s about diving into your so-called flaws, accepting the reality of your life, and gaining new perspective so that you can use them as fuel to move you forward. We live in a world where almost everything around us sends the message that we aren’t good enough. I want you to come out of this experience with an acceptance of who you are—and that means all parts of you.