
Never Say Your Friend Card is Full
I never grew up with sisters. I found my sisters throughout my journey of life in the most unusual ways. In my childhood, forging friendships and finding the sisterhood was a method for my survival in a dysfunctional household. I became the master at connecting with all types of friends. As I grew up I began to understand the strength and resolve it takes to actually BE a sister to someone else. It takes courage to open your heart and hold presence for another. It takes commitment and loyalty with an unshakeable resolve to be truthful and forgive. I honor all of my sisters with a deep love, faith, trust and conviction each day of my life. They are part of my foundation for truth and authenticity.
Do you know what a true “sister” means to you? I must say I have learned from Michelle. At 45 years of age, I understand the meaning of true sisterhood with her. She has been my dearest friend for over 25 years, and will remain so for the rest of my life. I am in awe that this beautifully powerful woman holds our friendship in as much high regard as I do. We have lived across the country from each other for the past 17 years and yet I feel her presence, love and SOMETIMES – patience with me through each day of my life. I could write forever about her positive qualities (our husbands always roll their eyes at us when we start spouting our love for one another!) So lets start with some background on my “BFF” (as my little girl inside me would call her).

After I moved in, we instantly connected. It was like we were catching up for all the time we had lost in our lives together. She asked me to be in her wedding and on we went as dear, dear friends. Unfortunately, I moved several times – Michelle is still in the Raleigh, North Carolina area. We have been through thick and thin together. Death, illness, divorce, marriage, raising kids, friendship challenges, you name it. Like Oprah calls Gayle her “go to girl”, Michelle is mine and will be forever.
I have tears in my eyes as I write this and my heart is full thinking of all of the work my dear friend, my “sister” in the best, best sense of the word has poured into as the founder of Anna’s Angels Foundation. She tirelessly mobilizes her local community to put on annual events including a 10 mile run, a beautiful Gala and Auction and a tennis tournament.
I honor all women who have found their sisters, I honor the universe for sending me mine and I eagerly await ALL my new sisters that I will encounter and love through this great journey of life.

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